Father’s Day is more than just a date on the calendar; it’s a heartfelt celebration of the incredible men who shape our lives with love, patience, and guidance. At IDI, we’re lucky to have a vibrant community of fathers, each with their own unique journey and stories to tell. So, this year, we thought, why not share some of their inspiring experiences? Let’s dive into the heartfelt reflections from our IDI dads, as they open up about what fatherhood means to them.
Liming: The Power of Small Moments
For Liming, the most unforgettable moment was the day his daughter was born. That instant hit him hard, realizing how much she would absorb from the world around her, influenced by his words and actions. “Even a simple smile in the morning or a quick glance on the phone, kids pick up on the tiniest things,” he shares. Becoming a father made him more intentional with his energy, understanding that the environment he creates impacts her growth. His takeaway? Parenting is about being mindful and setting positive habits, because those little moments shape a lifetime.
Min: Finding Joy in the Simple Things
Min’s biggest lesson from his children is to cherish the present. As a Senior Interior Designer, he’s used to planning and perfection. But his kids teach him daily that beauty lies in spontaneity and simplicity; like drawing on walls or building wild forts in the living room (don’t worry, mum’s in the know!). These moments remind him to enjoy life’s small joys and nurture his creativity. His hope? To pass on resilience, empathy, and a love for thoughtful living; values that transcend any profession.
Ze Feng: Resilience and Empathy in Parenting
Ze Feng emphasises that raising children is a journey of growth for parents too. He hopes to instill resilience, empathy, and a genuine appreciation for life’s design, both in spaces and in relationships. Parenthood, he says, teaches patience and understanding, helping him become a better person daily. His ultimate goal? To help his kids grow into kind, confident individuals who can navigate the world with integrity.
Thiha: The Importance of Communication and Balance
For Thiha, fatherhood is about balance; juggling work, family, and personal well-being. His advice to new dads? Communicate openly with your partner, appreciate each other’s efforts, and stay grounded. Fatherhood has transformed him into a more patient and empathetic person, highlighting the importance of prioritizing quality time, even if it’s just a few shared moments.
Andy: Embracing the Unexpected
Andy humorously describes fatherhood as a rollercoaster of surprises; bizarre sleep patterns, new financial commitments, and a shift in personal grooming. But through it all, he’s learned to see the world through his children’s eyes. “Being a dad has made me more empathetic, dependable, and even a little bit goofy,” he laughs. He believes that embracing these changes makes us better men and fathers.
Uus: Unconditional Love and Inspiration
Uus’s greatest reward? Knowing his children remember him as someone who loved them unconditionally and worked hard to inspire. His pride lies in seeing his kids grow into kind-hearted souls who appreciate the simple acts of love; hugs, laughs, and “thank yous.” For him, being a role model and showing unwavering love is the true essence of fatherhood.
Taufiq: Gratitude and Growth
Taufiq’s parenting philosophy is rooted in gratitude. He believes children are a blessing entrusted by God, and every moment with them is precious. His advice? Always make children feel like a reward, not a burden. Teaching kindness, resilience, and integrity starts with gratitude and leading by example.
Anthony: Dreams for the Future
Anthony hopes his children grow up to be confident, resilient, and kind. His daily celebration of fatherhood involves being present, such as helping with homework, sharing meals, or just listening. For him, these everyday moments are the building blocks of lifelong bonds.
Annuar: Lessons of Sincerity and Love
Annuar wishes his children to learn that sincerity, appreciation, and genuine love are the pillars of a meaningful life. His advice? Stay true to yourself, embrace new experiences, and lead with kindness.
Charles: Prioritizing Family
Charles cherishes vacation days and family playtime, emphasizing that quality moments matter most. Parenthood has deepened his gratitude and patience, making every challenge an opportunity to grow closer.
Faiz: Patience and Moral Values
For Faiz, patience and affection are the most valuable lessons learned from his children. He hopes to pass on faith, morals, and manners. The values that shape a well-rounded individual.
Anggi: Love and Faith
Anggi’s wish is for his children to remember him as a father who always reminds them of God’s love and their own worth. His proudest moment? The day his daughter was born was a day forever etched in his heart.
Solihin: Listening and Connection
Balancing work and fatherhood isn’t always easy, but Solihin believes in giving full attention to each role. His secret? Listening more than speaking, and making even late-night conversations meaningful.
Wahyu: Building a Positive Impact
Wahyu emphasizes that fatherhood is a chance to leave a positive mark on his children’s lives. His goal? Support their dreams through education and love, ensuring they grow into capable and compassionate adults.
Tanto: The Power of Tradition
Tanto values togetherness, spending even a short time with family is meaningful. Supporting his children’s hobbies and celebrating their passions helps nurture their happiness and confidence.
Rudi: The Family’s Foundation
Rudi sees himself as the backbone of his family. Providing education and opportunities is his way of shaping his children’s future because their dreams matter most.
Imam: Setting a Good Example
Imam’s best advice? Children are great imitators, so be the role model you want them to follow. Teaching kindness, resilience, and integrity involves understanding their actions and guiding with love.
Celebrating Every Day as Father’s Day
Whether it’s through patience, laughter, or simple acts of love, our IDI fathers remind us that fatherhood is a journey of growth, gratitude, and endless learning. This Father’s Day, let’s celebrate not just the special moments but every day that these incredible men dedicate to their families. Because at the heart of every family is a father’s love; a force that shapes, inspires, and endures.
Happy Father’s Day to all the amazing dads out there!
